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I painted an old man's porch yesterday. Never really done anything like that before. Didn't know how long it would take. Didn't know how much I would get paid. But an old man needed his porch painted, I needed money, and I'm always wanting to learn something new, so I thought, "Why not? I guess I'll paint an old man's porch today." I thought I'd make some money. Thought I'd learn how to paint a porch. But what I made and what I learned went far beyond what I would've expected. Turns out you just don't know what you might be in for, when you go to paint an old man's porch.
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As I got my tools together and got started on the job, the old man took a seat on the porch. Sometimes he talked, sometimes he was silent. When he stared off in the distance, his eyes seemed to be holding back 90 years of memories of mornings just like this one. When he spoke, he made observation of the hummingbirds eating from the feeder he had hung from his backyard shed; how one was always the boss, how the funny little birds that seemed so innocent could severely bully one another, and how peaceful it was just to watch their acrobatic flight. He'd look out into his eastern neighbor's backyard, where a manufactured home was being set up. For what reason, the old man didn't know; but he sure knew the new home was too close to the old home, and that they oughtta change its angle so it'd be square with the property. Oh well; I guess a 90 year old man earns the right to complain about a few things.
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As I worked, I watched the old man trying to walk around on his bad knees. Now this wasn't the first time I met this old man; we've actually been friends for several years. I knew why his knees were bad, and why he only has three fingers on his left hand. Actually, they're the same reason. This old man was in a war. The old man was one of the greatest generation. Sicily and North Africa are just places to me, just geographic locations you read about in history books. Not to the old man. To him, those are places on whose beaches he landed, places where friends died, places where he did his duty in this midst of hell, places he remembers with every painful step. He told me about some of these places, some of those friends. While we ate lunch, he showed me a book that the Army had put together, a history of the 45th Infantry Division's 179th Regiment in which he served. There were pictures, stories, statistics, maps. There was a list of casualties in the back. Several of those names had been marked with a yellow highlighter. They weren't just names to him. When we went back out, he told me some more stories. He joined the army in 1938, three years before Pearl Harbor. "Did you join because you thought a war was coming?" I asked him. "Naw," he said, "I was 17 years old and needed money. And $21 a month was a lot of money." He told me about a lieutenant in North Africa who did what had to be done to protect his men from a potential threat. Had the lieutenant done what he did today, he would have been crucified by the media, tried for war crimes, and accused of tarnishing America's reputation by resorting to barbarism. Back in them days, they just called it doing your duty.
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The old man also a few good stories about growing up. He talked a lot about his brother, who is dead now. I could tell he misses him. The old man remembers well what it was like to be young. He said he worked as a painter for a sign company when he was 13 and 14. Can you imagine that today? I think his brother worked for the company and helped him get the job. His brother later became a business agent for painters and such in the city. Did that for about 20 or 30 years. I was glad the old man knew how paint. I sure didn't. He showed me a lot of tricks he still remembered. I had to laugh at the story he told about a school bully that chased him home several times. One day the bully made the worst mistake of his life; he caught him. After that, the young boy that became the old man never had to worry about the bully again. In fact, he started chasing the bully home!
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He told me about his wife. A woman he loved with all his heart. They were married after the war. Never were able to have any children. After retirement, they travelled the country and he has some wonderful stories to tell about those days. She's been gone for over nine years now. But neither love nor pain have diminished.
We talked about changing times. He's lived on the same corner for 17 years, and lived just down the street for almost as long before that. Our area has seen some heavy development recently. You know times are changing fast when a 90 and a 20 year old man can both remember the day when you were lucky to see a car on the road, much less traffic.
If you've never done it before, painting a porch requires a lot of looking up. Made me think of Michelangelo painting the Sistine Chapel, lying on his back, paint and plaster dripping in his face. I said something about it to the old man. He chuckled. I'd only seen the chapel in pictures. But the old man? He'd seen it with his own eyes, when he too was a young man. Back when he was fighting a war.
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Did we talk about politics? The economy? You betcha! The old man has seen a lot of things in his day. It makes him shake his head in wonder at the irresponsibility of people. Why they drive expensive cars, live in big houses they can't afford, get buried in debt up to their eyeballs. Like about 90% of 90 year old men, he's a lifelong Democrat. It saddens him to see what the party of Roosevelt and Kennedy has become. He doesn't trust his president. Despises him really, for apologizing for America's wartime actions. Doesn't trust the people leading his country. He understands the foolishness of their policy, but doesn't know what to do about it.
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It ended up taking me all day to paint the old man's porch. I learned a lot more than just how to paint. But as I reflected on the day, I thought of something else; something that saddened me. It was the thought of how few young men ever get the chance to paint an old man's porch. What are they missing? There are so many old men in this country with so many stories, just like the old man whose porch I painted. There are so many young men in this country, just like me, who need to hear them, but never get to. Why? We don't take the time to listen. We've got too many other friends. We're too busy with "life." And everyday, they, and their stories, are dying. We have told the old men that they don't matter, that we don't have time for them, that they have nothing to teach us. Yeats spoke accurately of these times: "That is no country for old men... an aged man is but a paltry thing." But are there yet old men? Are there yet young men? Then there is yet time. Young men, there are old men in your neighborhood, in your town, in your church, in your family. Now find one of those old men. Paint his porch. Listen to his stories. Hear his wisdom. Do you want to be a man? Learn from one who already is.
Wisdom is with aged men,
With long life is understanding.
Job 12:12
In hopes of rebuilding a country for old men,
Colton